“So, I got edges that scratch” -Banks
“The way you rock” -The Peaches.
“Another time….another f*cken time” -Le Tigre.
“No candy for you!” -Bikini Kill
I am a girl
I am a feminist
I am a mama
I am a teacher
I am an activist
I am a strong womyn
I am me
I am dangerous
I am quiet
I am loud
I am independent
I am spiritual
I am political
I am liberal
I am an empath
I am happy
I am grateful
I am tears
I am smiles
I am a reader
I am a poet
I am too nice
I am impulsive
I am chaotic
I am free
I am a lover
I am YOUR muse
This goes out to all womyn around our world. We as womyn are the essence of humanity. It is a shame that we do not get more credit, but it is okay because internally we know we are the Goddesses of the world. Our bodies bring life to the world. Our nature molds our kin to be strong powerful warriors. We are meant to hold a mans hand and be their backbone. We are the force! We are strong and when brought together, we roam Mother Earth as the strongest souls human kind shall ever see ❤
In honor of International Women’s Day,
I want to say thank you to all those brave souls who stood up for women’s rights! Although, both genders are very different like day and night, that does not mean day and night do not share the same spacey rights!
Thank you to to the women who paved the way for us to vote! Yes, it took almost 100 years to allow us to have a political voice, but awesome women from Susan B Anthony to Ida B. Wells fought with all their might to give us voting rights!
Thank you to Margaret Sanger for opening the first birth control clinic! How many women accidentally get pregnant, how many get impregnated by rape or molestation? She put her life on the line to empower women to educate themselves on their own sexuality! Us females have so much freedom today (in most countries)! Many females don’t even realize the fights, deaths, rally’s and marches our ancestors had to endure just so we, today can be free!
There are many more fights that need to be fought, but we need to come together and empower one another!
FEMS and Gents, let’s stop the bickering and love one another for our individual strengths and weaknesses! Yes, we are all different, but that is the beauty of humanity! Humanity should empower one another. So, get off your phone, computer, couch and do something today to bring the gender gap closer to equality!
IT’S INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY!
Well, well, well. I got your attention. What do you know! Well, what I know, is that in our fumbling of a society, we tend to call each gender names. Why? Because both genders; male and female are two completely beings. We have different agendas when it comes to our lives sexually, emotionally, and in relationships.
Women have been called bitch, whore, slut, tramp, drama queen and I am sure you can add more to that list. Is it degrading? Hell yeah!
Men on the other hand really only have a few degrading names, such as dog and asshole.
Here we are in our universal world, continuing to live in an unequal world. What I am trying to discuss, is embracing these words if they fit you. I mean, being called a “dog” or “asshole” coming from my point of view if not so degrading as being called a “bitch” or “slut”, but let’s get over the power of the word. If you’re acting like the word is described, why would you get offended? This is where I am at in my thoughts.
I mean really. It is common sense, right? IF, a female is walking around not being in their happy zone and telling everyone off in a store, yeah, they are acting like a “bitch”. Embrace it girl! Yes, your acting it and you have chosen to act as such, so take it like a champ. If a male is walking around the store with disrespect for everyone in the store by bumping into people without saying sorry, then telling the cashier to “hurry the fuck up because he has to hurry his ass to get to work”. Then, yeah, I would say in our society language that he has chosen to act like an “asshole” and he should embrace it just like the bitch. I know many men and women who act like fools and they do admit it. Yes, admit it, learn from it, apologize and then learn from it!
On the aspect of our sexual lives, this is when it gets complicated and sad to degrade both genders, but mainly women who take the biggest hit. But in reality, once again, embrace it. Shoot, if you are truly living a certain life style, why get offended? I mean, really? Yes, I do know that females get hit with hard words, but the behaviors are the same. Let’s take a look:
Let’s begin with the lesser degradation. MEN. MEN ARE DOGS!!! What does this even mean??? The real definition is a person regarded as “unpleasant, contemptible, or wicked (used as a term of abuse)”. So, when we say, “men are dogs” in relation to the fact that they are sleeping with more than one women, this does NOT fit the cake! I mean, they are not acting “unpleasant”, shoot, it’s the opposite, they are getting a lot of pleasantry! They are not abusing anyone, they are enjoying it! So, in essence, this term is actually taken out of context. But let’s act like we don’t even know the real definition. In our society, the “WEST”, when we call a man a dog, it means, they are sleeping around and it is a good thing! They are getting them some! I see nothing wrong with this! It’s a good thing! So, here we go again, if a male is acting like a “dog”, then gosh darn, embrace it! Do I agree with it? HELL NO! But you will not change for anyone, you will do what you want, just take precautions and be careful, you dog! (As I smile and look at your cute face). BUT, I have found that some men get flustered when a female makes a comment as such. “Men are DOGS!” LESSON: if you are going to do the deed as such, accept the garbage language and laugh it off!
On the other side of the coin, I am sure there are many women who sleep around as well. Of course in our society, we call them whores, sluts, tramps and are thought to be disgusting creatures when they are doing the “dog” thing! NOW, as we all know, we live in an unequal gendered society. Fine, instead of arguing and getting heated by being called by all these degrading names, laugh it off and know you are getting yourself some hot love!
Just like being called a “dog” as a male, if someone calls you a “slut” because you sleep around, embrace it because the real, technical definition is, “a women who has many sexual partners”. Nothing wrong with that! Actually, it is a better definition than being a male “dog”. What is degrading is being called a “whore”, do you know why? Because the real definition is being a prostitute and selling yourself for money! NOW, that is down right dirty!! I guess they finally got us, females! I say, just turn it around, if someone calls you such, say, “I”m not a whore, but maybe a slut”. Ha, that still sounds wrong! But in the real world, if you are a female and you are sleeping around, embrace it girl! It is what you enjoy doing if your are living that way. Who am I to judge? Who are we to judge? If a man is given a high five because he is a “dog”, then girl, you deserve a high five too! The tables are actually turned here because it is much easier to be a slut as us females can get it from any man because they are all dogs! (pun intended)
Above it all. I am not a dog, whore, slut or tramp. I am me and I embrace that. If I ever do decide (and have in my past) to sleep with more than one man, I have never been offended by being called a “slut”. I embraced it because that was my action and I made that choice. And it was actually nice!
So, enjoy your sexual relationships, embrace the words as they are only words! Yes, words hurt, BUT if you are acting it, why get upset! On the bigger hand, let’s try to just ignore the gender inequality of thoughts by all those crazy thinking people out in the world.
Do you know what a feminist is?
Do you know what feminism is?
Do you know what equality is?
Do you know how to empower each other?
I think NOT!
Some of you have it,
Some of you do not.
What is wrong with people?
What is wrong with our society?
It sickens me….
Yesterday, on Americas, “day of love”, I viewed a post that showed a women wearing a tight, body hugging, red dress.
The owner of the post, made a rude comment, “Don’t be this girl, Put captions here!”
Oh my! THIS IS EXACTLY WHY GIRLS, WOMYN, FEMALES AND THE LIKE HAVE ISSUES and men too!
THIS IS WHY OUR SYSTEM OF THINKING IS DISGUSTING!
In 2014, yes, people still think like this!
Who cares what she is wearing! She obviously felt good in her gear, so this is why she wore it!
Men stated comments such as, “Instant chorizo”, “trying to appeal to the moo cow”. DISGUSTING! This is a perfect example of parents having to teach children right from wrong. We need to love all humans, whether they are female, male, trans-gender, gay, lesbian, thin, heavy, skinny or over-weight. Who cares what humans look like on the outside?
Really people? The outside of our bodies is just a shell. What matters is our souls, the inside where our fire lives.
So many of you men and women need to grow up, mature and accept all as they are. Until then, we will continue to breed children who will lack self-esteem, confidence and empowerment.
Do you want to know what is even more sickening? Are you ready for this?
There were even women, females, ladies who were bashing this red dressed lady! Comments such as, “Oh no you didn’t!”, “she must have been drunk when she was getting ready!”, “she’s like I can still shop in the miss teen section they don’t have mirrors”.
Amazing how quick males and females are to bashing each other, but how would they feel if people were saying that about them?
All I have to say is, when people say negative things about others, that is really how the feel about themselves inside. Yeah, it could have been funny, it could have been a joke. But joke about something else, because the way females view themselves NOW, is a horrible epidemic of negativity.
I will continue to empower myself, other womyn and my daughters. Because if one person can empower you, it may be a domino effect.
Whether you are female or male or however you classify yourself, love yourself from within. If you do not like the way you look on the outside, first work on loving yourself from the inside. Once you can love yourself from within, then you will begin to see what a beautiful person you are.
If you want to change the way your outside shell looks, once you feel good from within, this will be easy. It will be easier to get out and walk, to go for a hike or work out. It will be easier to eat healthy. Because when we love ourselves from within, we will not be putting horrible things into our bodies.
The point is, love yourself. But also love others and don’t judge. You never know what the other person is thinking or feeling.
Empower one another instead of bashing each other.
I want to sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think.
I want to sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think.