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Aside

“So proud of you”,

I wish she would say,

But it doesn’t come out,

It just doesn’t come out, that way!

A FEELING Of SHOCK, IT RUNS THROUGH MY VEINS,

IT’S OKAY, I WILL NOT STRAIN.

“Okay, that’s good” , in a monotone voice.

She shrugs her shoulders and then walks away.

I LOOK AT HER,  BLANKNESS IN HER EYES,

WHATS WRONG WITH YOU, IS ALL I WANT TO SAY!

GULPING DOWN, THE TEAR THAT I FEAR,

I SUCK IT UP, CAUSE I AM THAT DEAR.

I stand there. I await.

Awaiting that hug.

Nothing comes out, oh….just that shrug.

A SHRUG?

A SHRUG?

IS THAT ALL I GET?

I WANT MORE!

MORE!

MORE!

MORE!

I sit and I wonder.

I sit and I ponder.

I sit and wonder why .

WHY?

WHY?

WHY?

Why is this such a blunder?

What will happen when you die?

Will I cry? Will I be shy?  Will I fly and ask why?

I WAITED and WAITED.

I REALIZED REAL QUICK.

AS A KID, I HAD TO BE FIXED.

I have no memory,

Memory of those three little words, 

Have I heard them at all? 

I cannot recall. 

I care, I share and hope to be loved,

but from the looks of it, you are in fear.

I’ll love you, know matter what!

YOU SHOULD BE LUCKY,

THAT I CARE

 I CARE!

AND I CARE!

I have no more fears, they are all but gone.

They have been gone for  years,

A cheer for a beer!

No lasting love, all but one.

LOVE ME, 

HOLD ME,

TELL ME,

DON’T BE AFRAID,

SAY IT!

JUST SAY IT,

SAY, THOSE THREE little words…..

 

Three Little Words….

Dress and Feminism

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Do you know what a feminist is?
Do you know what feminism is?
Do you know what equality is?
Do you know how to empower each other?

I think NOT!
Some of you have it,
Some of you do not.

What is wrong with people?
What is wrong with our society?
It sickens me….

Yesterday, on Americas, “day of love”, I viewed a post that showed a women wearing a tight, body hugging, red dress.

The owner of the post, made a rude comment, “Don’t be this girl, Put captions here!”

Oh my! THIS IS EXACTLY WHY GIRLS, WOMYN, FEMALES AND THE LIKE HAVE ISSUES and men too!

THIS IS WHY OUR SYSTEM OF THINKING IS DISGUSTING!

In 2014, yes, people still think like this!

Who cares what she is wearing! She obviously felt good in her gear, so this is why she wore it!

Men stated comments such as, “Instant chorizo”, “trying to appeal to the moo cow”. DISGUSTING! This is a perfect example of parents having to teach children right from wrong. We need to love all humans, whether they are female, male, trans-gender, gay, lesbian, thin, heavy, skinny or over-weight. Who cares what humans look like on the outside?

Really people? The outside of our bodies is just a shell. What matters is our souls, the inside where our fire lives.

So many of you men and women need to grow up, mature and accept all as they are. Until then, we will continue to breed children who will lack self-esteem, confidence and empowerment.

Do you want to know what is even more sickening? Are you ready for this?
There were even women, females, ladies who were bashing this red dressed lady! Comments such as, “Oh no you didn’t!”, “she must have been drunk when she was getting ready!”, “she’s like I can still shop in the miss teen section they don’t have mirrors”.

WOW! REALLY?!

Amazing how quick males and females are to bashing each other, but how would they feel if people were saying that about them?

All I have to say is, when people say negative things about others, that is really how the feel about themselves inside. Yeah, it could have been funny, it could have been a joke. But joke about something else, because the way females view themselves NOW, is a horrible epidemic of negativity.

I will continue to empower myself, other womyn and my daughters. Because if one person can empower you, it may be a domino effect.

Whether you are female or male or however you classify yourself, love yourself from within. If you do not like the way you look on the outside, first work on loving yourself from the inside. Once you can love yourself from within, then you will begin to see what a beautiful person you are.

If you want to change the way your outside shell looks, once you feel good from within, this will be easy. It will be easier to get out and walk, to go for a hike or work out. It will be easier to eat healthy. Because when we love ourselves from within, we will not be putting horrible things into our bodies.

The point is, love yourself. But also love others and don’t judge. You never know what the other person is thinking or feeling.

Empower one another instead of bashing each other.

Wishful Thinking.